Saturday, March 13, 2010

Update

Playing AWANA Games


Shayle and I were having a conversation this morning about her birthday. I asked her what she wanted mommy and daddy to get her for her birthday. She said, "bubbles and a hot tub." I said, you want a hot tub? She said "yes, a hot tub." I told her that hot tubs cost a lot of money. She then said "I have money, six dollars." So cute, she was so serious about all of this, having no clue that a hot tub costs more than six dollars.

Last weekend, we went to a cabin in Oklahoma, near Broken Bow. She played in the hot tub, so this is where she came up with this idea. I will do a post soon on our camping trip.

This week will be busy with parties. We are having a family party Sunday night with my dad and step mom who are coming from Abilene. Monday, the "Big Day" we will get Arron's driver's license and celebrate some more. Tuesday night all of Arron's friends are coming over to stay and then going to play paintball on Wednesday. While all the guys are playing paintball, us girls are having a tea party for Shayle at our house. I have found some cute princess tea cups and party favors. Everyone will come dressed as their favorite princess. Shayle has been wanting a tea party since January.

Still no word on a LOA for Ben, maybe we will have it for his birthday on Wednesday. Please God, send us our LOA!!! As we are going to be so busy with parties on Ben's birthday, a part of me can't help but to be a little sad to know that Ben is spending his birthday so far away without his family. He should receive his cake and care package on that day. However, due to recent changes in his orphanage, no pictures will be allowed. They will not allow any digital or with the disposable camera included with his package to be used. This breaks my heart, since I have been holding out on getting a new picture of him with his birthday cake. The pictures I have of him are a year old. I'm sure he has grown so much.

Please pray that Ben will receive our package on 3/17 and that somehow we will get a picture. God is bigger than any policies and I know he can change the minds and hearts of people. Also, please pray we will receive our LOA this next week, today is day 65 since our LID.

One more thing, I would like for you to pray for an upcoming procedure for Shayle. She will be having a scope done to determine if she will need an additional surgery with her palate. It has been a year since her palate repair and her speech is still not where it needs to be. Her surgeon has determined that she will likely need a p-flap surgery to correct it and help her develop certain sounds. Of course the scope has to be done without sedation or any kind of medication to relax her. She is not a good patient when it comes to poking and prodding. This scope will be traumatizing for her but it is necessary before making a decision for surgery. They will insert a tube with a camera on the end through her nose to look at her airway and the back of her throat as she makes certain sounds. I know without God's power to help her, their is no way she is going to be still and certainly not going to make any sounds once it is inserted. It is likely we will have to have several people hold her down and then hopefully she will cooperate and speak for them while the camera takes pictures. Once I know the exact date I will post and ask that everyone pray during that time. If the test shows that she will need surgery, she will have tissue cut from her throat and sewn up through the palate to create a flap. This should help her greatly with her speech, which we would like to see progress before entering 1st grade in a public school. She has already been made fun of in her private kindergarten class, which breaks this momma's heart.

I will post some pictures of the birthday activities next week! Have a great weekend.





Sunday, March 7, 2010

Two Months Today


It has been two months today since we were logged into the CCAA for Ben. I am anticipating a call anyday now for our letter of acceptance, which was called our RA with Shayle. Ben will be two on March 17th and I have ordered him a care package to be sent with a birthday cake on his birthday. Oh how I wish we could spend his birthday with him!

Myranda bought this for Ben, since he is a St. Patty's Baby



Speaking of birthdays, Arron will be 16 and Shayle 7 on next Monday, March 15th. They are growing up way too fast. I don' t feel I'm old enough to have one driving already. He is very excited of course! He will be getting dad's '01 Chevy Silverado to drive and Shayle, well she thinks she also needs a car to drive. Well, maybe a barbie jeep will be on my list this week! More to come on our birthday celebrations..........

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Myranda All Dressed Up













Myranda went to the Valentine's dance a couple weeks ago. We had so much fun shopping for her dress! I made her an appt. to get her hair done as several of her friends had done. She met up with several friends to eat before they went to the dance. She is turning into such a beautiful young lady. Just this year she has really began to grow up on me.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Ben's Care Package



I have finally managed to put some pictures of Ben's care package we sent on January 28th. I sent it through DHL like I sent Shayle's last time. We were able to track it all the way to China. It was delivered to the orphanage on Feb. 3rd. I don't know if he has received it since he is in foster care. I'm hoping he has and has been able to look at the pictures we sent in his photo book.


Monday, January 18, 2010

The guys heading to the Independence Bowl back in December.

Payton with our Italian Greyhound, Maverick. He is 3 1/2 years old and is very active and full of energy.

Myranda, who doesn't let me take her picture very often.


Payton is our animal lover. This is our aggie dog, "Rev" on her 13th birthday. We have had her since she was 8 weeks old. We got her when Arron turned 3 and she is a very well behaved sheltie who has been so good with the kids. She is beginning to slow down and is starting to show her age. It has been hard to watch her health decline since she has been with us for so long.




Payton's new shirt she bought when we recently went to College Staion for a basketball game, sooo cute!


Helping Mom bake cupcakes for Jacob's birthday.


Enjoying hot chocolate on a cold winter day.








Friday, January 15, 2010


We received great news on Jacob's birthday. We are logged in, PTL!!!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Celebrating Jacob




Jacob's 8th Birthday



Jacob as a sweet newborn baby



Jacob's 1st Birthday
Today is my baby boy's birthday. I can't believe he is already 8! I am so proud to be his mom and that God blessed me with him. He loves being a big brother to Shayle and is so excited about being a big brother to Ben, finally a younger brother. He is looking forward to sharing his room with him.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JACOB COLE, WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!














Friday, January 8, 2010

Happy New Year!

I decided to change up my blog as we begin the new year. We had many blessings in 2009 and are looking forward to the adventures and blessings God has in store for us as we bring home our son in 2010!

We should be hearing that we have a LID for Ben very soon. After that time, I am going to send him his first care package with his very own photo book of his family who is waiting for him. Once he receives his care package, I am going to have our agency send a request to have updated photos, measurements and a few questions sent to us. The only pictures we have are 9 months old. I sit and wonder at how much he has changed, how much taller he is and what he looks like now. I'm not sure if the orphanage will give us any information. Some have been able to get updates and some could not.

I will be creating a website for Ben soon. Once I do, I will have a link to his site from our family blog.

Wishing each of you a year full of God's blessings as we serve Him together in 2010!

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

DTC!!!!!!




We have been given an early Christmas present. It has been 96 days since receiving our referral for our sweet baby boy. Today our agency called to let us know our dossier has been mailed to China! We should be officially logged in in 2-4 weeks and then we will begin our "WAIT" for the govt. in China to review our dossier and give us approval to adopt Ben. The anticipated "WAIT" will be 5-7 months after we have a log in date. We feel like we will travel sometime between May and August, 2010.


Thursday, December 17, 2009

Paperwork Is Finished!!

We have finally finished our paperwork and received it back from the Houston Consulate on Tuesday, December 15, 2009. I mailed it to our agency the same day and they received it yesterday. The agency e-mailed with good news that we should be DTC by Christmas!! DTC is the "Date To China" that our paperwork, also known as our dossier, is mailed to China. What a nice Christmas present for us.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Celebrating 18 Years With My Best Friend

Darrel and I celebrated our 18th anniversary last week on December 7th, 2009. He surprised me with a weekend get away to the Gaylord Texan. We had a great time and this picture was taken on our anniversary. We also saw the Ice sculptors, which was something I had been wanting to see. It was very nice to get away without the kids. I appreciate him so much for always thinking of me and planning time to get away, I love you so much and couldn't have asked God for a better husband to spend my life with! I also appreciate my in-laws for coming to stay with the kids, no matter how many we have!